Problem with custom skin & Embed 1.1

have the same problem as Barnaby. i've included the plugin in the config file (<plugins>embed-1</plugins>) and i'm using this method to declare the embed code:

var embedCode = escape('<embed src="http://www.somedomain.com/player.swf" width="470" height="320" bgcolor="000000" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" flashvars="config=http://www.somedomain.com/config.xml"></embed>');
s1.addParam("flashvars",'file=video.flv&plugins=embed-1&skin=embedSkin.swf&embed.code='+embedCode);

i also use my own skin and i copied the embed button from your source to my skin file into the controlbar and the instance name is indeed embedButton.

but it doesn't work. the button appears in the controlbar but it doesn't function. i also tried not declaring the embed code which should prevent the button appearing but it was still there... so it seems that the plugin is not loaded at all... why not?

UPDATE:
i tried <embed.show_window_after_complete>true</embed.show_window_after_complete>
and the embed window did show, so the plugin is loading. however the embed window was with default styling and not from my skin, so the problem must be with my skin.

any ideas of what the issue is, coz im sure im doing everything right