Problem with D-related combined with Viral Plugin

I have a lisenced player and I use the following syntax:

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var objPlayer = new SWFObject('<%=ResolveUrl("~") %>Video/player-licensed-viral.swf','ply','510','441','9','#ffffff');
objPlayer.addParam('allowfullscreen','true');
objPlayer.addParam('allowscriptaccess','always');
objPlayer.addParam('wmode','opaque');
objPlayer.addVariable('file',file);
objPlayer.addVariable('autostart','true');
objPlayer.addVariable('menu', 'false');
objPlayer.addVariable('logo', '<%=ResolveUrl("~") %>images/Logo510.png');
objPlayer.addVariable('skin', '<%=ResolveUrl("~") %>Video/stijl.swf');
objPlayer.addVariable('lightcolor','008FCB');
objPlayer.addVariable('plugins','viral-2');
objPlayer.addVariable('viral.functions','link,embed');
objPlayer.addVariable('viral.email_subject','MagnesiaNews - WebTv');
objPlayer.addVariable('viral.email_footer','');
objPlayer.addVariable('viral.oncomplete','false');
objPlayer.addVariable('plugins', 'drelated-1');
objPlayer.addVariable('drelated.dxmlpath', '<%=ResolveUrl("~") %>Video/GetRelatedVideos.ashx?FileId='+fileId);
objPlayer.addVariable('drelated.dposition','bottom');
// objPlayer.addVariable('drelated.dskin','skins/grayskin.swf');
objPlayer.addVariable('drelated.dtarget','_self');
objPlayer.write('mediaspace');

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Normaly viral plugin is enabled on pause of video and when i press the button menu of the player...
When i add D-Related plugin too , Viral becomes unaccesible as D-Related is enabled on pause and at the end of the video (is it possible to disable on pause function????) and also make menu button to dissaperare....

What can i do in ordet to enable viral on pause and d-related oncomplete of the video and to reappear the menu button ??